Every man wants to drive his woman wild with desire, but there are other areas to focus on besides the breasts and genitals. Following are a few of the top erogenous zones when it comes to females. All men will want to be sure to concentrate on one or more of them during foreplay. By doing so, lovemaking can become even more pleasurable.
The Importance of Foreplay
Many women say that their men don’t spend enough time with foreplay, so any guy who wants to please his woman will be wise to spend some time on this. Making love should be a whole experience and not simply the act of intercourse that’s over within a few minutes. By taking the time to arouse one another, it can lead to better sex. Foreplay can be a very fulfilling part of lovemaking.
Five Female Erogenous Zones
Following are a few of the most sensitive erogenous zones that can drive most any woman wild with desire and add even more passion to lovemaking.
1. Hands and Feet
Many people never think of the feet and hands as being erogenous zones, though they are very sensitive, containing many nerve endings. These areas are often ticklish and many women find it arousing when their partner gently runs his fingers or tongue over their hands or feet, or licks and sucks on her fingers or toes.
2. Backs of the Knees
This is another area rich in nerve endings and very sensitive, though there are very few men who take advantage of this hidden erogenous zone. By lightly running the fingertips or tongue over this area, it can be quite erotic for a lady and add a new dimension to foreplay.
3. Ears
Old movies from the 50’s often show young couples “necking” in the front or back seat of a car and the guy nibbling on and blowing in the girl’s ear. This seemingly old-fashioned technique is incredibly arousing for women. Most women love having their earlobes softly bitten, the shell of their ear delicately licked, and sexy words whispered in their ear.
4. Neck
Take time to explore different parts of a woman’s neck, biting gently, sucking, kissing and licking from the ear down to her collarbone. The sides of the neck are often more sensitive than the front or back, though each person is different. Try increasing the pressure to see what she enjoys most. Be careful about leaving marks (hickeys) behind though since some women find them distasteful or can’t show up to work with these bruises on her neck.
5. Lips
Last but certainly not least, the lips are often considered one of the most erotic of the erogenous zones right after the breasts and genitals. A lot of women complain that they aren’t kissed nearly enough and it can be a very sexy way to arouse a lady, so be sure to take advantage of this tip. Too many men get into a relationship and forget this important part of foreplay, yet it can keep the passion alive in a relationship nearly as much as, if not more than, sex. Take time kissing her lightly then with more pressure, licking her lips and softly biting her bottom lip. As passion increases, slip your tongue into her mouth and slide it over hers then let things take their course.
By focusing on some or all of these top five female erogenous zones you can add variety and spice to your love life.
Resources:
Woman's Day: Surprising Female Erogenous Zone (accessed June 26, 2010)
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